When I got married, I was excited to start designing a home with my husband. But as it turns out, there are some unexpected challenges when two people come together to decorate their first home together. A couple of years is what it takes us to find our groove, but now that we’ve done it once (and lived through some fights), we want to share our tips and tricks with anyone else who might be starting out on their own decorating journey.
Set your budget.
Setting a budget is an important part of the process. Getting carried away with all the exciting home decor ideas will more likely come, so it’s important not to forget that you can’t do everything at once. After all, there are other things that need attention, too–like furniture and appliances!
The best thing about setting a budget is that it allows you to prioritize which areas of your house need improvement first. If you’re on a tight schedule, this will help keep things moving along smoothly so that when guests come over, they won’t notice how unfinished everything looks.
Decide as a couple.
Deciding on the decor of your new home is one of the first things that newlyweds need to do together. While it may seem an easy decision, cliche as it sounds, it’s really easier said than done. There are several factors that should be discussed before moving forward with any plans.
It can be difficult as a couple because we often have different ideas about what looks good or feels comfortable in space; however, if you both compromise and work together on this project, then it will be much easier for both of you in the long run!
Second, don’t let one person dominate the discussion by simply agreeing with everything they say. Instead, try taking turns explaining why certain items appeal more than others so that way everyone has an equal opportunity for input into these decisions–this way, nobody feels left out during conversations about interior design!
Incorporate elements that define your personality as a couple.
When decorating your home, you should consider incorporating elements that define your personality as a couple. This can be done by choosing furniture that represents you both and adding personal touches to the decor. You can also add photos of your family and friends or items that represent your interests.
For example, if you’re into sports, then it would be nice to have some memorabilia on display in the living room or bedroom, such as jerseys from favorite teams or trophies won at competitions. If one of you loves art, then it makes sense for him/her to hang their paintings on the walls.
Choose your color palette.
The color palette is the core and foundation of your home decorating style. It’s important to choose colors that work well together, reflect your personality and style, and complement the room you’re decorating.
Learn to compromise.
Learn to compromise, not just in home decorating but in a relationship in general, and it will help you avoid many arguments in the future.
Compromise doesn’t mean that you have to give up all your wants and needs; it just means finding common ground with your partner by meeting them halfway. For example, if both of you really want new furniture but can only afford one item right now, agree on which piece is more important (maybe it’s an armchair for him and a coffee table for her), then buy the other item later when finances allow it.
In addition to compromising on big purchases like this one, remember that little things shouldn’t matter so much either–and certainly not enough for an argument! Instead, focus on what makes each other happy instead of dwelling on trivial matters like this one which is bound only serve as fuel for future arguments later down the road if left unchecked now while still fresh within memory banks.
Make it cozy and warm.
Using a variety of textures and materials, even a variety of colors, can be a touch of a blossoming relationship. Use a variety of lighting that can set different positive vibes and moods. Use a variety of furniture, art, plants, accessories, and rugs to make your home cozy and warm.
Keep memories alive with a wall full of photo frames.
Displaying photos of you and your spouse, like photos of your wedding day, is a must at home. You can also add vacation photos that remind you of happy times together as a couple or with friends. It’s also a good idea to display any special occasions that were memorable for the two of you, such as birthdays or anniversaries! If there are any pets in the house, consider framing some pictures in order to create an overall theme throughout the home decor. But if you have kids, don’t forget about children! They deserve their own wall, too, so grab some frames or even try a digital frame that can flash different photos in one place.
Focus on the bedroom.
It is the most intimate space in your home and should be decorated with a color that is neutral and calming, like blue or green. The lighting should be soft and warm, as well as flattering to your complexion. If you’re looking for something bolder than traditional white sheets, try red or orange linens instead! And don’t forget about complementary colors–you can get away with mixing browns and golds together because they’re so similar in shade.
Utilize your area as best you can.
Mirrors may help a tiny space appear larger, so if you don’t already have one, now is the time to buy one! Mirrors can be placed on walls or hung over windows to reflect light into darker corners of your home and create more visual interest. If you want something more subtle than an actual mirror, try adding artwork or even an accent wall.
Another way to maximize space is by using furniture that has multiple functions. For example, an armchair can double as extra seating when guests come over and also hide storage underneath its cushions. Or a bench could serve as both seatings during dinner parties but also provide extra storage under its seat cushions later on when there aren’t any guests around. This way, all those little nooks in our homes aren’t wasted–they’re put to good use!
Extend your green thumb.
Use plants to decorate. Whether you want to add greenery, color, and texture or just a focal point in your home, plants are a great way to do it.
Potted plants are perfect if you don’t have enough time or space for a full-grown garden. They can add an instant sense of warmth and comfort in any room of the house and make the space feel more like a “home.”
Succulents are another option that requires minimal maintenance but still offers lots of benefits: they’re easy to care for (no watering needed), and they come in all sorts of shapes & sizes, so there’s something suitable for every type of decorating style/budget out there too!
Use lights that are dimmable and have a variety of colors.
Use the colors that you have in your home, such as the color scheme or accent colors. For example, if you’re going for a bright red and gray theme, try using LED bulbs with an amber glow instead of white or blue ones that would clash with the rest of your decorating choices.
Among all the tips we can give, the best reminder we can give is that a home can be decorated without arguing with your spouse!
We hope you enjoyed our tips. We know it can be challenging to get into the decorating spirit when you’re fighting with your spouse, but we promise that if you keep these things in mind, the process will go much smoother. Remember that it’s important to set aside time for each other and talk through what each person wants out of their home before making any decisions together. And remember: don’t overdo it! The goal is not just beautiful rooms but also happy ones where both partners feel comfortable spending time together.
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